It has always been assumed that men were the major culprits when it came to the issue of infidelities committed within the confines of a so called exclusive relationship.
While others will say that there are just as many women involved with these same very men in order to actually have a partner to cheat with, for the most part society has assumed that it has always been a single women that was lied to by a man that merely never mentioned that he was married or supposed to be in an a monogamous relationship in the first place.
While I don’t think that there could ever be an accurate survey conducted to show the exact proportion of women who cheat on their mates as opposed to the men who do, you will probably agree that much more women are involved in the deadly yet sinfully sweet practice of infidelity because of many factors and changes in society that just didn’t exist many years ago.
What might those be?
Well I will pull in a few just off of the top of my head…….
The workplace – Women are more at work and around so many different types of energies on the workplace than they were when they were the stay at home moms whose jobs were to take care of the family and the home twenty four hours seven days per week.
She was so laden down with the tasks of home economics that they were actually the blinders that kept her from being directly approached by a man with an agenda that didn’t include her being faithful to her man.
Social Media Influence – It was so easy back in the days long before social media changed our lives to fall into the happy rut of normalcy in our routine where we accepted the good with the bad and the ugly.
Our lives were just that – OUR LIVES!
If we snapped a few Polaroid pictures, it was tossed in the family album and was there for all who visited which really meant family members and close friends.
Now when we take a photo with our smartphones we have the option of clicking one or two prompts that will give us the option of sending that visual that was taken mere moments before to the entire world and even more strangers!
Not a good situation at all because now with others doing the same we now have a means of comparison to see how others are living and peek into some of the most private areas of their lives to sometimes feel as though we have been shortchanged when we are not living the life of the Facebook friend who is actually a friend OF a friend.
But your curiosity got the best of you and now you realize that you have three men who are strangers complimenting you on how stunning you look. While you might write it off as just a horny man saying this not only to you but to a boatload of other women, he eventually catches you good with his kind words just at the moment that you were feeling down when your husband ignored your attempts at affection and never really noticed how nice you’ve prepared yourself and the home for him to have a special evening when he arrived home from work.
While he needs to get back to the loving treatment that he gave you prior to you both getting together, it still doesn’t make it right when those passionate words from that strange handsome man has caused you to secretly become moistened and aroused at the thought of what he might want to do with and to you in the delicious freakish ways that your neglectful husband has never attempted in recent years.
…….this is how trouble begins.
The infidelities indulged in on your computer right from the comfort of your lonely bedroom is an epidemic sweeping across not only the nation but the world as it is too easy to find someone to commit adultery or cheat with and women are the booming category of online users that are growing and are fast becoming more of the predator for extramarital affairs than men are because they have the ability to do it right in ones face and pull it off in such an innocent manner unlike the sloppy men do.
Societal Changes – Face it, women are damn near as free to navigate the sexual/sensual waters in this day and age just as brazenly as men do! Not that it wasn’t happening for some behind closed doors years ago for some, but these days the things that were taboo or off limits to even mention are commonplace now and actually mandatory! Seriously! Think not?
Well I can remember a time in my younger days when a woman thought you were a disgusting nasty freak when you attempted to perform oral sex on her, now this is not everyone, but this was the majority I would say.
Now? You better believe that you HAVE to go down on a woman and you better do it good too! HA! If you don’t she is going to talk about you so bad and just like regular oral stimulation was something that was soon to emerge as being a mandatory indulgence many years ago in male/female exchanges, tossing SALAD (If you don’t know what this means, please ask! LOL!) has now become the new mandatory practice for men who want to stay on the cutting edge of satisfying their woman!
Boy how times have changed! LOL!
All I will say to that is that I have ALWAYS been ahead of my time! And take that anyway you wish! LOL!
But while we can speculate until the cows come home, I want to hear from everyone who participates in this show what THEY think and if you can share some of your personal observations/experiences so that we can come to an agreement not only if women ARE cheating just as much as men have but to find out why and how we can bring back some sense of balance and sensibility into our relationship expectations/obligations because we must remember that our kids are watching and if we are carrying on as crazy as we are then what kind of world will it be when the next few generations take our buffoonery to the next level with all of these deadly diseases and crazy people out here?
And we as men need to understand that the precious woman that we have at home is now bombarded with all types of opportunities to receive what it is that we might not be willing or thinking about giving her, some women are strong and some are weak but the fact of the matter is that she has many options in 2012 that you might not want to acknowledge – so wake up and get ON THE JOB before it’s TOO LATE!
…….and remember, it’s VERY hard to put a lock on it in 2012! Believe that!
Once again I look forward to seeing you all there and hope that we all come away from our program a bit more enlightened and entertained at the same time.
…….I can’t wait!
Time: Friday, November 2, 2012 @ 10 p.m. Eastern Standard Time
Place: The LanceScurv Show <—–Click here at showtime to hear the entire program live on your computer or smartphone!
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