For all of the progress made by the human race there is so much ground to cover when it comes to he we relate to one another between the sexes. We put a man on the moon a lifetime ago and can fly anywhere on the p[planet. We now have advances in the medical field that were seemingly impossible to perceive at the turn of the millennium and possess smartphones that make Dick Tracey’s wristwatch television appear inept.
Yet, with all of the technological advances and previous high marks in all recorded achievements smashed we have yet to improve our understanding on mass of the opposite sex on those deeper levels.
Sure, we seem to always get along in that early infatuation phase and have absolutely no problem when it comes to enjoying the pleasures that come from the union of our physical bodies, but when it comes to the psycho/emotional differences between us once the effect of those early phases have passed, we can count on those roadblocks in understanding to always give us that bumpy ride that we have all to often accepted as an inevitable part of our connection to the opposite sex.
This happens in all races, cultures and lifestyles and while those slight differences in the specifics will always be there, it is for the most part all the same.
From what I have observed and maybe I am wrong, but we as Black-American men more often seem to give up on seeking that deeper connection with our divine mate and have either given up on the dream of a happy relationship completely or only indulge in those sweet early parts of the connection and disappear once the signs of true intimacy or the beginnings of erosion begin to take place once the going gets rough. This I must say is not a hard set rule for everyone in the Black community but when comparing us to different cultures and races across the globe, we are sadly lacking in our determination to stay with our Sisters and support them even when they are not involved with us on a sexual level or as a potential romantic mate.
So the question looms: Have We Forsaken Our Sisters?
So what is the reason why we – more so than anyone else across the planet – don’t seem to care about this troubling gap that only appears to widen with every known unit and measure of time. Will this facilitate the destruction of our race? Surely it cannot be a thing that would be considered good and if the truth be told my questioning this phenomenon is not a precursor to setting up an argument in the “blame game” department. You know, blaming women for their shortcomings and oversights or doing the same to the men. No! I wouldn’t be so narrow minded to even BEGIN to think so backward because in the end it will be ALL OF US as a people who will ultimately suffer while others thrive and defeat their own obstacles that come to offset their positive upward ascension and path.
Our Sisters are hurt people! Our sisters NEED us men! There are certain things that need to be done automatically without her having to tell us and guide us! We are moving into a time where we MUST step up to the plate and knock that ball out of the park each and every time because overall we have fallen so far behind on the scorecards and appear to be a few short plays away from a certain loss and I know that God didn’t place us here on His earth to be LOSERS!
But more so than us men who are looked down on by those in the world who view us with disgust is our women who have always stuck by our side and have rooted for us when all others have given up on our chances for that come from behind win and have written us off as a people and left for DEAD!
But with all of the forces that may be against us as well as the foolishness that we do to bring on the unnecessary consequences from bad choices, we are making things worse for ourselves as men by forsaking the ONLY thing that we really only have in this world: OUR WOMAN!
When we get locked up, who is there to bail us out?
When we get caught cheating, who got hurt the most yet STILL gave us a second chance even though you didn’t deserve it?
When we got fired off of the job, WHO was there to greet us at home with the sweetest embrace, the most delicious meal and the most mind blowing blowjob to let us know that we are still the King in her world even though we took a major loss?
When we are feeling down in the middle of the night when the burdens of the world weigh down on us like never before, WHO is that one who will hold us close and tell us that everything will be alright?
I can go on forever you and I both know that answer to the four previous questions: YOUR QUEEN OF A WOMAN!
But the sad reality is that we seem to have forgotten how much of a gift she really is and treat her as though her worth is of no value at all.
We quickly run to everyone else to share our good fortune when success comes knocking at our door. We act as though she is the worst looking creature on the planet even though it was someone who resembled her who brought us into the world and nurtured us to the strength that we so proudly display to the world right now.
all of a sudden she is not good enough for us even though she helped to keep a roof over your head while you were a full time student and never allowed your stomach to ever empty out of her home cooked culinary offerings but as soon as you graduated you gave her your ass to kiss…….
So I ask you Black man – HAVE WE FORSAKEN OUR SISTERS?
…….and you wonder why they are walking around sounding and looking so angry?
Well if we didn’t forsake them and gave them at least HALF of what they have sacrificed and given to us in the BEST YEARS of their life, they wouldn’t HAVE to be a nag because that same irritating voice that gets on your last nerve from across the room would be source of that very sensual moan that would come out of the bliss that she feels not only when you sex her, but when you do the right thing by her and cater to a nature within her that will manifest into the Heaven on earth for YOU!
So WHY have we forsaken our Sisters?
On this night we will delve deeply into the possible reasons as to why this unsettling trend continues to expand and grow to only morph other social conditions that we couldn’t have imagined becoming reality many years ago. Action must take place after the dialogue because if we don’t, one can only imagine the depths to which we ALL will fall if we don’t wake up to understand that we both – men and women – have a role to fulfill and a position to occupy if we are to EVER return ourselves back to the pristine people that we once were in a time that really wasn’t too long ago.
I look forward to hearing from you at showtime and do know that YOUR VOICE AND VIEWPOINT COUNTS!
Time: Friday, October 5, 2012 @ 10 p.m. Eastern Standard Time
Place: The LanceScurv Show <—–Click here at showtime to hear the entire program live on your computer or smartphone!
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