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ARE YOU SURROUNDED BY ATTITUDES AND IDIOTS? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 28, 2025
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ARE YOU SURROUNDED BY ATTITUDES AND IDIOTS? | LANCESCURV

Understanding the Nature of Idiots You ever notice how some people just seem to exist to test your patien ...

Understanding the Nature of Idiots You ever notice how some people just seem to exist to test your patience? Whether it’s a coworker with an overinflated ego, a driver who cuts you off only to blame y ...

March 28, 2025
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DEADBEAT SUPERSTARS: WHY CAN’T BLACK CELEBRITIES WITH MONEY HELP THEIR OWN PEOPLE? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 27, 2025
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DEADBEAT SUPERSTARS: WHY CAN’T BLACK CELEBRITIES WITH MONEY HELP THEIR OWN PEOPLE? | LANCESCURV

The Illusion of Wealth and Power We need to wake up and understand the game being played on us. Many of o ...

The Illusion of Wealth and Power We need to wake up and understand the game being played on us. Many of our most famous Black entertainers, athletes, and politicians are worth hundreds of millions—som ...

March 27, 2025
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SEXUAL IMBALANCE: HOW MY EARLY INTRODUCTION TO SEX SHAPED MY EMOTIONAL LIFE | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 27, 2025
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SEXUAL IMBALANCE: HOW MY EARLY INTRODUCTION TO SEX SHAPED MY EMOTIONAL LIFE | LANCESCURV

Let’s be real for a second. This is one of those conversations that folks don’t usually have in the open. ...

Let’s be real for a second. This is one of those conversations that folks don’t usually have in the open. It’s raw, it’s personal, and it’s something that has shaped me in ways I’m still unpacking. Bu ...

March 27, 2025
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THE POWER OF SILENCE IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 27, 2025
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THE POWER OF SILENCE IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY | LANCESCURV

The Dangers of Heated Arguments We've all seen it happen—a small disagreement turns into a shouting match ...

The Dangers of Heated Arguments We've all seen it happen—a small disagreement turns into a shouting match, then escalates into something dangerous. Heated arguments make your heart pound, your emotion ...

March 27, 2025
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THE LOUDEST FOOL IN THE ROOM: THE KNOW-IT-ALLS OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 26, 2025
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THE LOUDEST FOOL IN THE ROOM: THE KNOW-IT-ALLS OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY | LANCESCURV

The Sound of Insecurity We've all encountered them—the ones who dominate conversations, talk over everyon ...

The Sound of Insecurity We've all encountered them—the ones who dominate conversations, talk over everyone, and act as if their every word is gospel. They are the self-proclaimed intellectuals of the ...

March 26, 2025
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USERS, LEECHES, PARASITES AND TAKERS: THE ONES WHO NEVER GIVE BACK | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 26, 2025
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USERS, LEECHES, PARASITES AND TAKERS: THE ONES WHO NEVER GIVE BACK | LANCESCURV

There’s a sickness that runs deep in our community, a toxic mindset that allows some people to take, take ...

There’s a sickness that runs deep in our community, a toxic mindset that allows some people to take, take, and take—without ever thinking to give. It’s not just a matter of balance or fairness. No, th ...

March 26, 2025
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ARE YOU EVEN AWARE OF THE UNSPOKEN STRUGGLES THAT PUSH BLACK MEN AWAY? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 25, 2025
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ARE YOU EVEN AWARE OF THE UNSPOKEN STRUGGLES THAT PUSH BLACK MEN AWAY? | LANCESCURV

The Silent Struggle of Black Men Every day, countless Black men in America carry the weight of expectatio ...

The Silent Struggle of Black Men Every day, countless Black men in America carry the weight of expectations, responsibilities, and pressures that often go unnoticed. They are the backbone of families, ...

March 25, 2025
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THE AGE OF DECEPTION: COUNTERFEIT SPIRITS vs. BLACK PEOPLE | METAMORPHOSIS

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|Date: March 24, 2025
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THE AGE OF DECEPTION: COUNTERFEIT SPIRITS vs. BLACK PEOPLE | METAMORPHOSIS

In every movement toward Black empowerment, there are always saboteurs in the midst—double agents cloaked ...

In every movement toward Black empowerment, there are always saboteurs in the midst—double agents cloaked in melanin, working against the very progress that could uplift our people. This is not conspi ...

March 24, 2025
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THE TRUE MEASURE OF A LONG LIFE: WISDOM, IMPACT, AND SPIRITUAL FLIGHT | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 24, 2025
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THE TRUE MEASURE OF A LONG LIFE: WISDOM, IMPACT, AND SPIRITUAL FLIGHT | LANCESCURV

Many people fear aging, associating it with physical decline and a loss of purpose. The thought of being ...

Many people fear aging, associating it with physical decline and a loss of purpose. The thought of being unable to care for oneself as in youth can be daunting, but I see aging through a different len ...

March 24, 2025
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A WAKE UP CALL TO THE BLACK MEN WHO QUIT TOO EASY | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 24, 2025
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A WAKE UP CALL TO THE BLACK MEN WHO QUIT TOO EASY | LANCESCURV

The Silent Struggle of the Intelligent but Incomplete Black Man We’ve all seen him. We all know him. He’s ...

The Silent Struggle of the Intelligent but Incomplete Black Man We’ve all seen him. We all know him. He’s not lazy. He’s not a bum. He’s not out here looking for a woman to take care of him or schemin ...

March 24, 2025
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CAN A MAN BUILD A PEACEFUL LIFE WITH A WOMAN WHO LOVES CHAOS? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 23, 2025
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CAN A MAN BUILD A PEACEFUL LIFE WITH A WOMAN WHO LOVES CHAOS? | LANCESCURV

Not every woman is worth your time. Some women bring peace, loyalty, and genuine love into your life. Oth ...

Not every woman is worth your time. Some women bring peace, loyalty, and genuine love into your life. Others? They drain you, manipulate you, and slowly turn your life into a disaster. And here’s the ...

March 23, 2025
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CONSUMERISM IS NOT THE CURE FOR LOW SELF ESTEEM | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 23, 2025
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CONSUMERISM IS NOT THE CURE FOR LOW SELF ESTEEM | LANCESCURV

In the intricate tapestry of American society, the Black community stands as a testament to resilience an ...

In the intricate tapestry of American society, the Black community stands as a testament to resilience and enduring strength. Yet, beneath this resilience lies a complex economic narrative shaped by s ...

March 23, 2025
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INDEPENDENCE TASTES BITTER WHEN YOU’RE EATING ALONE: DID FEMINISM FAIL BLACK WOMEN? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 23, 2025
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INDEPENDENCE TASTES BITTER WHEN YOU’RE EATING ALONE: DID FEMINISM FAIL BLACK WOMEN? | LANCESCURV

Independence Tastes Bitter When You're Eating Alone Time has a way of slipping through our fingers, movin ...

Independence Tastes Bitter When You're Eating Alone Time has a way of slipping through our fingers, moving faster than we ever anticipate. That reality hit me hard today when I was awakened by a flood ...

March 23, 2025
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REST IN POWER BIG GEORGE FOREMAN | THE POWER OF SECOND CHANCES | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 22, 2025
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REST IN POWER BIG GEORGE FOREMAN | THE POWER OF SECOND CHANCES | LANCESCURV

Growing up in the vibrant era of the 1970s, boxing was more than just a sport—it was a testament to resil ...

Growing up in the vibrant era of the 1970s, boxing was more than just a sport—it was a testament to resilience, strength, and the complexities of the human spirit. As a teenager during this golden age ...

March 22, 2025
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ARE YOU GUILTY OF THESE MAJOR MISTAKES THAT HUSBANDS MAKE?

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|Date: March 22, 2025
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ARE YOU GUILTY OF THESE MAJOR MISTAKES THAT HUSBANDS MAKE?

Over the years, as I’ve become more visible on social media and gained the trust of many people I’ve cros ...

Over the years, as I’ve become more visible on social media and gained the trust of many people I’ve crossed paths with, I’ve found that many seek my advice—not because I claim to be some all-knowing ...

March 22, 2025
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THE VANISHING ACT: WHY DO DECEPTIVE WOMEN DISAPPEAR INTO THIN AIR?

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|Date: March 22, 2025
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THE VANISHING ACT: WHY DO DECEPTIVE WOMEN DISAPPEAR INTO THIN AIR?

A Friend’s Story, Told With Permission This is not an attack on women. It’s an exposure of a certain kind ...

A Friend’s Story, Told With Permission This is not an attack on women. It’s an exposure of a certain kind of woman—a predator, a master manipulator, a ghost in the night who enters a man’s life under ...

March 22, 2025
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ANTHONY MACKIE OR DWYANE WADE | WHO IS YOUR CHOICE AS THE BETTER EXAMPLE OF FATHERHOOD?

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|Date: March 21, 2025
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ANTHONY MACKIE OR DWYANE WADE | WHO IS YOUR CHOICE AS THE BETTER EXAMPLE OF FATHERHOOD?

In today's rapidly evolving twisted society, the definitions of masculinity, fatherhood, and identity are ...

In today's rapidly evolving twisted society, the definitions of masculinity, fatherhood, and identity are subjects of intense debate. Two prominent figures, actor Anthony Mackie and former NBA star Dw ...

March 21, 2025
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MASTURBATION | IS IT SLOWLY KILLING YOU? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 20, 2025
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MASTURBATION | IS IT SLOWLY KILLING YOU? | LANCESCURV

Let’s talk about something most men won’t admit to—something that has become an epidemic, even though it ...

Let’s talk about something most men won’t admit to—something that has become an epidemic, even though it has existed for generations. Masturbation has weakened manhood across all cultures, races, age ...

March 20, 2025
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ARE YOU CURIOUS WHY MOST WOMEN CHOOSE MEDIOCRE MEN? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 20, 2025
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ARE YOU CURIOUS WHY MOST WOMEN CHOOSE MEDIOCRE MEN? | LANCESCURV

You Aren't Crazy, But The Game Ain’t Fair Over and over, you see it happening—women choosing dudes who ai ...

You Aren't Crazy, But The Game Ain’t Fair Over and over, you see it happening—women choosing dudes who ain't got nothing going on while you, a man who actually put in the work, keep asking yourself wh ...

March 20, 2025
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WHY CAN’T YOU JUST LET HIM GO? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 20, 2025
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WHY CAN’T YOU JUST LET HIM GO? | LANCESCURV

There’s always that one man she can’t forget. Not because he treated her right, not because he was a grea ...

There’s always that one man she can’t forget. Not because he treated her right, not because he was a great partner—but because something about him left an imprint on her soul. Many Black women find th ...

March 20, 2025
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IS GOODNESS A CURSE IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 19, 2025
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IS GOODNESS A CURSE IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY? | LANCESCURV

I come from a different era in the struggle for Black liberation. I was born right in the thick of it—Apr ...

I come from a different era in the struggle for Black liberation. I was born right in the thick of it—April 1963, at Columbia Presbyterian Hospital. That same hospital where Malcolm X was rushed when ...

March 19, 2025
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MOVING SOLO: ISOLATION OR LIBERATION? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 19, 2025
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MOVING SOLO: ISOLATION OR LIBERATION? | LANCESCURV

The Cleansing Power of Being Alone Oftentimes in life, you find yourself in a place where solitude become ...

The Cleansing Power of Being Alone Oftentimes in life, you find yourself in a place where solitude becomes your new reality. At first, it may feel like loneliness, but in truth, it is a period of clea ...

March 19, 2025
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TO SERVE MAN: BLACK PEOPLE’S PINEAL GLAND IS OPEN IN 2025 | METAMORPHOSIS

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|Date: March 18, 2025
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TO SERVE MAN: BLACK PEOPLE’S PINEAL GLAND IS OPEN IN 2025 | METAMORPHOSIS

The Illusion of Help: How Government Programs Have Weakened the Black Community In 1962, an episode of Th ...

The Illusion of Help: How Government Programs Have Weakened the Black Community In 1962, an episode of The Twilight Zone titled "To Serve Man" aired, telling the story of seemingly benevolent aliens a ...

March 18, 2025
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HAVE YOU FALLEN INTO A NARCISSIST’S TRAP? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 18, 2025
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HAVE YOU FALLEN INTO A NARCISSIST’S TRAP? | LANCESCURV

Exposing the Narcissist’s Playbook: How to Break Free from Their Manipulation They Play a Different Game— ...

Exposing the Narcissist’s Playbook: How to Break Free from Their Manipulation They Play a Different Game—And You Need to Understand It If you’re dealing with a narcissist, the first thing you must und ...

March 18, 2025
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