Artist/Blogger Lance Scurv speaks on a topic that he has been hearing a lot women complaining about: Their lazy man laying around at home all day while THEY have to go out and make ends meet by holding down a job!
Granted there are not as many jobs to go around these days because of a strained economy and even less available jobs that many Black men would even be considered for because of having felony convictions, we understand that, but at least try to do something on your own even if it is to offer to clean a toilet or sweep a damn floor! Your woman knows that it may be a tremendous blow to the pride of her man to consider doing such menial work but it will at least show a willingness to keep things going and will show her what a warrior you truly are inside!
Your woman loves you and will stick by you through thick and thin but do not insult her and push her buttons by being fast asleep in the bed when SHE has to leave out early in the morning to get to work! You both should be leaving out together with you looking to network, inquire, investigate and secure SOMETHING for the both of your security! It’s tough, but in this life I have found that the sweetest most loving and binding times have come during the battles in life that brought two people closer together and prove what you are made of!