Black men have got to understand that if we continue view our women through a eurocentric scope we will never be able to love her in the manner that she needs to be loved and cared for.
Granted, if that woman is vibrating on a lower decadent frequency then no matter what we do to pull away from only appreciating her physical assets alone she will not understand us trying to acknowledge that she is more than simply the sum of her body parts.
In that regard we as upright men are going to have to have a discerning spirit to quickly assess how to deal with the many women who are damaged to meet her where she is with a deeper understanding. We must be prepared to receive the pain from our Sisters that came from her prior situations, relationships and disappointments that she had to endure. If we take it upon ourselves to raise our vibration in how we shower her with unconditional love, patience and wisdom…….she will have but no other choice but to follow through as the trauma she knowingly and unknowingly held onto deliciously melts away.
Listen in to Brother Lance’s words and whether you agree with the perspectives shared within it, do take the good from it and discard of the rest if it is no good for you. Remember, we MUST improve ourselves incrementally BETTER a degree better than we were the day before!