A few days ago I was literally in a state of shock to hear of the unfortunate situation in the loss of the life of aspiring video vixen, singer, actress and model named Carmella London’ a.k.a. Claudia Aderotimi. She ventured overseas from London, England to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to undergo an illegal silicone injection operation that would surgically enlarge her buttocks because she felt that a rounder, bigger backside would definitely aid her in her dreams of becoming a star!
Needless to say, she died during the procedure which was an under the table type of scenario which only cost her fifteen hundred dollars and her life! Authorities now speculate that a vein was nicked and some of the silicone entered her bloodstream and eventually her lungs. She complained of having chest pains and had a shortness of breath. Philadelphia Police are looking for the transgendered singer who goes by the name “The Black Madam” and whose real name is Padge Victoria Windslowe. He/She is most likely the one who performed these deadly practices on Claudia who was also accompanied by a friend who had the same thing done to her without any negative effects.
It’s so sad but she wanted an ass to die for and she got it. Sorry to sound so cruel but I am really getting sick and tired of this narcissistic “look at me” generation whose sense of self worth comes from how many friends that they have on their Facebook pages and YouTube videos. There is so much more to life than that and unfortunately many of them who do make it to a ripe old age will realize it only when it is too late.
It’s a crime that the perception has transformed from working hard and actually having talent to seeing who has the biggest ass regardless of the ability to sing or capture an audience with one’s God given abilities.
This has been the general consensus that has trickled down to all levels of our society and culture. The worst realization in all of this is that Black people have taken this outlook to heart even more so than anyone else. If you open your eyes as to what the reality truly is, you will see that it has permeated so much of our everyday life…….
So to illustrate my point, here is a typical scene on any inner city street corner where Black people live…….:
Scene number one:
Two unemployed young Black men in their mid twenties standing on the corner with nothing to do notice an attractive young lady approaching the area where they are standing in an effort to walk on by peaceably…….:
“Yo’ Junebug, check out that shorty walking this way down the block yo’! Damn! I can tell even from the front that she got a fat ass! Yo’ I ain’t never seen that chick around here before! I think she just moved here with that new family and shit! That might be that bitch that “T” met at that party last month and got hit off real quick in his car when he dropped her home and shit! If that is, I heard she got a mean headgame that’s OFF DA CHAIN! I heard the shit was so good that it left my nigga “T” sleep all day in the fetal position and shit! Damn, I got to try to get wit’ her and lock that ass down before anybody else gets up in that shit and fucks wit’ it until I meet me a better hoe! Damn she look good…….!”
Whew! That wasn’t easy at ALL! It hurt me to even TYPE that ignorant ebonically enriched example, but now here is how the typical scene SHOULD go down in a perfect world on any inner city street corner where Black people live…….:
Scene number two:
Two hardworking young Black men in their mid-twenties standing on the corner waiting for the bus after a hard days work heading home for a quick meal before heading over to the community college to take their night classes notice an attractive young lady approaching the are where they are standing in an effort to walk on by peaceably…….:
“Hey Malcolm, look at that beautiful sister walking down the block this way! Wow! I can tell from this distance that it’s the girl from
our English class on Thursday nights but I’ve never seen her around here before but come to think of it she might be related to that new family that moved here recently from New York City. Wow! I would really love to become more acquainted with here because I truly admire the way that she carries herself so decent and ladylike. Plus she seems to be very ambitious and I know she would make a good wife to some lucky man one day. Maybe that might be me one day soon?”
As I said before the latter scenario would be a common exchange if we lived in a perfect world. But unfortunately it’s not, we have as a people become so processed into the mindset of ignorance, hedonistic pursuit, irresponsibility, foul language, low expectations, and not looking past the cheap thrills and pleasures of the day that amount to nothing in the overall scheme of things.
We value our asses more than we value higher education and the pursuit of a life pleasing to the One who created us!
Think I’m being too harsh in my ASSessment?
Well, look around you and listen, open up your eyes and ears to what is now a common reality in our Black neighborhoods. Heck, this
phenomenon has even transcended the Black community into all others but to a lesser degree. But we by far are the worst in the United States collectively and there doesn’t seem as though there is an end in sight!
If our young girls would put half of the energy into learning something that would take their lives higher because of being equipped to not only change the world, but to change their world then we all would be far better off!
If our young men would put half of the energy into grooming themselves into real men but not these sideshow looking clowns that they have become wearing their pants down to display their asses, wearing dark shades at night along with their Mohawks, tattoos and earrings to learn how to change their world by becoming a thinker, mover and shaker through education, then we would be an awesome people once again!
But to the world we have been reduced to looking like dumb asses because all we have been reduced to worshiping IS our dumb asses!
“Dont be callin’ my ass dumb Scurv! You ain’t got no right to be sayin’ that shit!”
Well I’ll go even further and say this: “Everybodies ass is dumb! How do you like that? Everyone who ever walked the face of the earth, past, present and future has an ass that’s dumb!
Why? Because God didn’t put your brain in your ass! You don’t think with your ass but the minute you get into trouble by not using your brains it your ASS that’s got to suffer!
But we as men literally WORSHIP a woman’s ass and hold a sexy ass high on on list of necessary attributes that our woman must have!
“Damn she got a nice ass, I’d marry her in a heartbeat!”
I’ve heard this statement in public many a day and night and I truly believe this way of thinking is why half of us are in the trouble that we are in with our personal lives romantically.
Countless men are in the jacked up relationships that they suffer through because their better judgment in going down the list of
mandatory attributes was swayed because of that perfect backside that the potential woman had that blinded him like a startled deer caught a trucks headlights while crossing a dark quite country highway.
These same men who thought “ass” was the cure all didn’t think that the same ass that bedazzled them at the club that night couldn’t
clean, cook or be faithful. Now while you sit on top of a pile of dirty clothes that haven’t been touched from three weeks ago, at home,
broke and hungry because she took all of your money to get her hair done for another hot night at the club you wonder where you went wrong.
Now she MIGHT bring you home some cold fries from McDonald’s if you even get THAT much!
Why should you wonder now?
Did you really think “ass” would keep a clean home?
Did you really think that “ass” would keep your clothes clean?
Did you really lie to yourself to think that a deliciously round sexy plump “ass” could give you peace of mind when it doesn’t even have a brain?
When was the last time you or anybody that you know had a conversation with some ass? And of you did then PLEASE tell me what either the conversation was about or what in the hell YOU were smoking!
Did you truly think that the hot “ass” that you met in the club would be something that you can “capture” like some wild exotic bird in the wilderness to bring home to serve your every sexual whim and wifely duty and not crave to be back in the “natural environment” from which you’ve met them and taken them from?
Ladies! Yes! Don’t think that you’ve gotten away from my verbal/written wrath today! I have a few words and bones to pick with you also!
What kind of man do you think that you will attract when the only thing that you highlight in order to attract him is the naturally God
given curvature of your backside which if the truth be told I feel is a very beautiful thing that is so attractive to the eye. So do not
think that I am some kind of old cranky man who is upset to see a woman enjoy this sensual part of her physical being, far from the truth!
You dress yourself in a manner that advertises you to be disrespected. Sure, you will get lots of attention but why do you get mad when all that is focused on is your ass? You will never be approached on the basis of how educated you are because that is not what is showcased in your visual presentation of yourself. also, why does it surprise you when your man (Who is merely a dog in heat!) runs off with someone else who entices him with the same gimmicks you did?
Remember, if “ass” is the very thing about you that caught his eye then there are plenty women out here willing to catch his eye also! Ask around and I am quite sure that many will tell you that what I am saying is true because they too played the game and got left with nothing more than another mouth to feed and the embarrassment of truly understanding what their man was with them for in the first place.
Ladies, for those of you who claim to be followers of the Lord Jesus Christ, go to 1 Peter 3 verses 1 through 5 with the emphasis on verses 3 & 4. Many of our modern day worldly Christian women are not going to like it but if you claim Him to be your Savior then you have to submit to ALL of His word. Not just the bits and pieces that favor your own personal agenda! Read on:
1 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
Let’s look at this again:
3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment (No tattoos, piercings or other ‘hood gimmicks!) such as elaborate hairstyles (Stay out of the so called beauty parlor wasting your money making the oppressors hair care companies rich!) and the wearing of gold jewelry (This speaks for itself! How are you going to worm around God’s law?) or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit (OMG! You mean no head shaking and other hoochie type ‘hood ghetto behavior?), which is of great worth in God’s sight.
I’m sorry if I broke someone’s bubble but it needed to be shared. Also know that a great ass will come and go but knowledge, character and a pristine reputation in a woman are things that will never dissipate! Translation: Every neighborhood has that plump old woman who wasted her life and youth shaking her ass at the club jumping around from one man (And a few women!) to the next with absolutely nothing to show for it now! So don’t be like these out here who are the lost empty vessels who seek some type of satisfaction in a fleeting meaningless life void of the joy that only a personal loving relationship with the Creator that only God can bring.
You were made to be so much more than a temporary sideshow of sexual fantasy for a man that has no wisdom or higher goals in his life other than wearing his pants around his ankles as though he were home taking a dump on the toilet and had to jump up because the house phone in the living room began to ring. Noooooo! You deserve so much more than that and the moment that you begin to value the higher qualities of the human creation is the day that you will be appreciated more than just another juicy pair of easily “humpable” gluteus maximus muscles for a man to get up between to drop a load (Sperm at first and a baby nine months later!) that he doesn’t respect you enough to hang around and care for.
As the saying goes…….”Free your mind and your ass will follow,” the problem is with us is that our minds are trapped and our asses are so visible because of this mental incarceration. Once we elevate and expand our minds you will see less of our backsides and more of our intellectual brilliance, and only then will we feel as though we have more to offer the world than our ass.