No subject is more misunderstood by those who are not involved in it as the topic of Father’s Rights.
It’s easy to brush over it and check the necessary boxes a cold lifeless form to feel as though it’s merely a matter of a Father contributing much of his paycheck and making sure to adhere to the court ordered visitation limits.
But it’s so much more than that when you understand that these formalities are constructed and enforced by total strangers in the courts amidst the backdrop of broken hearts, open emotional wounds and resentments that would make the most evil demons hate pale in comparison.
While there are totally deadbeat men out here who are at least made to dance to the drum of a much needed discipline, one can’t argue that many a well intentioned man gets caught up in the system in a very bad way that accuses and punishes them for sins that they would never think of committing.
There are many good men out here whose lives are emotionally and financially snuffed out in their prime years all the while carrying the burden of having the court system dictate the relationship with his children that really should flow effortlessly and freely.
Enter the ex-wife or more commonly, the “baby mama“, usually after finding out that they are not any at all compatible with this good man that they share a child/children with, they will attempt to control him in a manner that emasculates him beyond repair. She knows that he just might have a future beyond her narrow scope and doesn’t want him to ascend to a potential that makes her insecurities rise to the top like the cream that she’s not.
She will manipulate the court system to her advantage and it appears to the Father of the children that the cards are stacked against him even after the courts proclamation of believing in what’s best for the children coming first.
How can one pay such a high amount of child support with the ever growing cost of living skyrocketing with every passing moment?
How can a man even maintain a job when he finds himself incarcerated simply because the mother of his child chose to lie about abuse or some other type of infraction?
How does a man find the internal fortitude to continuously jump through the hoops that are set so high by the courts while the expectations of success on this man who is already overladen with the burden of the world on his shoulders dwindles?
The prior relationship scenario isn’t written in stone as there are countless stories that have there own unique narrative and we simply don’t have the time to dissect each and every single one of them.
But most often it’s quite evident that the court, the lawyers, the court officers and the judges do benefit from the dividing of a family and even more so when it rapes the remains of a carcass that was once a happy home.
Let me give you a bit of clarity on tonight’s program, our dear Sister, Ashanti Davis, will share her very intense feelings and experiences in the sensitive area of Father’s Rights to give a much needed voice for the good men who are abused by it, misused by it and ultimately crushed by it.
In our dialogue with her, we will definitely see the overlooked perspective that men in these situations have to deal with but spoken through the mouthpiece of a divinely anointed woman who has the ability to tell it like it is to cut through the smokescreen of slanted propaganda that is all so commonly spread to color the way our good men are viewed in the world.
Look forward to a very informative and eye opening exchange with this rare Sister who is on a mission to reveal the truth!
Time: Friday January 3, 2014 @ 10 p.m. Eastern Standard Time
Place: The LanceScurv Show <—–Click here at showtime to hear the entire program live on your computer or smartphone!
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