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CONSUMERISM IS NOT THE CURE FOR LOW SELF ESTEEM | LANCESCURV

CONSUMERISM IS NOT THE CURE FOR LOW SELF ESTEEM | LANCESCURV

In the intricate tapestry of American society, the Black community stands as a testament to resilience and enduring strength. Yet, beneath this resilience lies a complex economic narrative shaped by systemic challenges and persistent disparities.

In 2024, the collective purchasing power of Black Americans was projected to reach $1.8 trillion, positioning them as a formidable consumer group. Despite this significant spending capacity, Black households accounted for just under 10% of the nation’s total expenditure on goods and services in 2019, a reflection of enduring income and wealth disparities.

Homeownership, a cornerstone of wealth accumulation, remains an area of concern. As of 2021, approximately 44% of Black Americans owned homes, compared to higher rates among other racial groups. This disparity contributes to a median Black family wealth of $44,900, which is only 15% of that of a typical White family.

The criminal justice system further compounds these economic challenges. Black Americans are overrepresented in the prison population, a factor that disrupts economic stability and perpetuates cycles of disadvantage. Additionally, as of January 2024, the unemployment rate for Black Americans stood at a near-record low of 5.3%, reflecting both progress and ongoing challenges in the labor market.

These statistics underscore the complex interplay of consumerism, systemic inequities, and economic vulnerabilities within the Black community. Despite substantial spending power, structural barriers continue to impede wealth accumulation and economic parity. Addressing these challenges requires a multifaceted approach that includes policy reforms, community empowerment, and targeted economic initiatives.

As we delve deeper into this discussion, it becomes imperative to examine how advertising and consumerism exploit these systemic vulnerabilities, often leading to cycles of debt and financial instability. By understanding these dynamics, we can begin to chart a path toward economic empowerment and resilience for the Black community.

Stop and think for a second—how many things have you bought in the last few months that you actually needed? Be honest. How many of those purchases were impulsive? If you think you’re fully in control of your choices, it might be time to reconsider. Because the truth is, you’re not just buying products—you’re buying illusions.

Have you ever wondered why you constantly feel the urge to get something new? Why even after making a purchase, the satisfaction never lasts? And most importantly, who is really making these decisions for you?

The Psychology of Why You Buy

There was a time when people only bought what they truly needed—food, simple clothing, tools. If something broke, they fixed it. If it wasn’t necessary, they didn’t waste money on it. But look around your home right now—how many things did you buy purely because of advertising?

Consumer behavior didn’t change by accident. It was designed that way. Advertising used to be about informing people, not manipulating them. Back in the 19th century, ads were simple: they showed a product, its price, and its function. You decided whether you needed it. But by the 20th century, advertising became something else entirely. It stopped selling products and started selling emotions.

It wasn’t about selling a car anymore—it was about selling status and power. It wasn’t about selling clothes—it was about selling self-worth and social acceptance. And just like that, we were programmed to crave, not to think.

CONSUMERISM IS NOT THE CURE FOR LOW SELF ESTEEM | LANCESCURV

How Advertising Manipulates You

Advertising doesn’t just sell products; it sells a dream, a lifestyle, a false sense of identity. It convinces you that happiness, love, and success come from what you buy, not from what you build.

Modern advertising plays directly on your brain chemistry. Every time you buy something new, your brain releases dopamine—the same chemical responsible for addiction. That brief moment of pleasure keeps you coming back for more, creating a never-ending cycle of spending, dissatisfaction, and frustration.

And here’s where it gets even deeper. Big corporations aren’t just selling you stuff—they’re selling you insecurities. They know exactly what makes you feel inadequate, and they market their products as the solution. Feeling broke? Buy designer clothes to look rich. Feeling lonely? Buy the latest phone to feel connected. Feeling unattractive? Buy expensive beauty products to feel confident.

The Black Community and the Debt Trap

This manipulation is especially destructive in Black communities. Too many of us are spending money like we’re trying to fill a bucket with holes. We buy things we can’t afford to impress people who don’t even care. We flex on each other with luxury cars, designer brands, and overpriced gadgets—all while struggling to pay rent, build savings, or invest in something that actually secures our future.

The worst part? The system is designed to keep us trapped. Every time we start to build, there’s a new trend, a new “must-have” item, a new way to keep us broke and distracted. Black people in America, Canada, the Caribbean, and across the West have been trained to consume, not create. We chase symbols of success instead of real financial security.

And let’s talk about those folks who love to brag about their purchases. You know the type. They buy something expensive and can’t wait to tell everyone, hoping for admiration or envy. But in reality, they’re just proving how deeply programmed they are. They’re not rich—they’re just spending recklessly, mistaking material things for self-worth.

I’ve had people come to me, expecting me to be jealous because they bought something flashy. But I’m a creator, not a consumer. My mind isn’t wired to seek validation through possessions. And because I live that way, they call me cheap, thrifty, or boring. But I see it differently—I see them as victims of a system that has turned them into slaves to spending.

Breaking Free from Consumer Slavery

So how do we break the cycle? How do we escape the endless trap of spending money just to keep up appearances?

  1. Question Every Purchase – Before buying anything, ask yourself: Do I actually need this? Or am I being manipulated? If you feel a sense of urgency or scarcity, that’s a red flag—you’re being played.

  2. Detach from the Hype – Stop letting social media, influencers, and ads dictate your desires. The less exposure you have to these triggers, the clearer your real needs become.

  3. Invest in Knowledge and Experiences – Everything you buy loses value over time. But what you learn, create, and experience stays with you forever. Instead of buying the latest gadget, take a course. Instead of spending on designer brands, build a skill.

  4. Stop Trying to Impress Broke People – Real wealth isn’t about what you wear or drive; it’s about what you own, invest in, and pass down. Stop playing a game designed to keep you in last place.

The biggest corporations in the world depend on you staying blind to this. Now that you see the game for what it is, the choice is yours. Do you want to keep being programmed, or are you finally ready to take back control?

Because the truth is, you never needed most of the things you’ve bought in your life. You just believed you did. Not because you made that decision, but because someone else made it for you.

And that stops today if you really want it to…

I do hope that you’ve extracted something positive from these perspectives…

Sincerely,

LanceScurv

About The Author

LANCESCURV IS A SOCIAL MEDIA PROVOCATEUR | ILLUSTRATOR/CARTOONIST | PODCASTER | CULTURE CRITIC | DIGITAL NOMAD | NYC BORN & RAISED | WHO FOCUSES ON THE INTRICACIES OF HUMAN NATURE, TRENDING NEWS & THOUGHT-PROVOKING TOPICS OF INTEREST.

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