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Let’s Get One Thing Straight: This Ain’t About Bashing Women

Before we even get started, let me make something clear—this is not about putting women down. There are still good women out here, and those women deserve respect and recognition. The problem is that they are rare—maybe 10% of women truly bring beauty inside and out. And even if a woman isn’t the most physically attractive, her attitude, energy, and enthusiasm for a man can make her more appealing than any model.

But in today’s dating world, those qualities are hard to find. What we see instead are women who expect to be entertained, wined and dined, and treated like royalty while putting in no effort of their own. And that, my brothers, is the biggest turnoff.

Men Aren’t Here to Be Your Entertainment

Back in the day, dating had structure—dating, courting, engagement, and marriage. It was a process meant to build something real. Today, dating is nothing more than pleasure-seeking, and women expect men to be their personal entertainment facility.

You take her out, spend money, try to show her a good time, and yet, there’s no enthusiasm from her. No energy. No excitement about being with you. She’s just there, like an audience member at a show, waiting to be impressed.

That’s where these modern women lose. A woman who genuinely likes a man doesn’t just sit back like a customer at a restaurant. She invests in him. She’s excited to be around him. She values him.

But too many women today walk around thinking they’re automatically valuable just for existing.

Delusional Entitlement: The Biggest Female Flaw Today

Somewhere along the line, many women convinced themselves that they don’t have to bring anything to the table except their presence. They expect men to chase, invest, impress, and entertain—while they do nothing.

Here’s the truth: attraction is not just about looks—it’s about effort, energy, and engagement.

The top 10% of women get this. They understand that to be in the life of a high-value man, they have to bring value beyond their looks. The other 90%? They just sit back, expecting men to do all the work while they contribute nothing but demands and bad attitudes.

And they wonder why men stop chasing.

Bad Attitudes Are the Biggest Turnoff

It doesn’t matter how good a woman looks—if her attitude is trash, she is unattractive.

Women today are constantly in a bad mood.

They don’t bring good energy or positivity to a man’s life.

They act like they’re doing you a favor by simply existing in your presence.

They think they’re too good to be excited about a man.

Let me tell you something, young men—a woman who truly likes you will show it. She will want to be around you. She will engage in conversation with you. She will light up when she sees you.

If she’s just sitting there like you’re some dancing monkey at a circus, walk away.

Rejection Is Needed—Stop Entertaining Low-Quality Women

One of the biggest reasons women act this way is because too many men accept it.

Too many men validate women for nothing.
Too many men chase women who bring nothing to the table.
Too many men put up with disrespect, bad attitudes, and entitlement.

It’s time for men to raise their standards and start rejecting these women. Because when enough men do that, these women will have no choice but to change or be alone.

You Are Not Obligated to Be a Woman’s Entertainment

Young men, listen to me: you do not exist to entertain women.

A real relationship is built on mutual interest, energy, and enthusiasm. If a woman isn’t matching your energy, showing excitement to be around you, and actively investing in the connection, she is not the one.

Stop chasing women who bring nothing but expectations and bad attitudes.

Stop spending time with women who act like you should impress them while they do nothing in return.

Stop tolerating women who expect to be treated like queens without earning it.

Walk away. Focus on your purpose, goals, and self-respect. The right woman will come into your life naturally, and she will make it clear she wants to be there.

Slim Pickings, But They Exist

I won’t lie to you—it’s slim pickings out here. Most modern women are lost in delusion, entitlement, and bad attitudes. They’ve been praised for nothing their whole lives, so why would they change?

But the few good ones? They exist. They are the women who still understand the value of a man and appreciate what a good man brings to the table.

The key is this—stop wasting time on the bad ones. Let them learn the hard way. Let them grow old and bitter wondering why they never got the man they wanted.

You? Stay focused, stay strong, and stay away from these modern-day headaches.

Enjoy your life but don’t get played…….

LanceScurv

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LANCESCURV IS A SOCIAL MEDIA PROVOCATEUR | ILLUSTRATOR/CARTOONIST | PODCASTER | CULTURE CRITIC | DIGITAL NOMAD | NYC BORN & RAISED | WHO FOCUSES ON THE INTRICACIES OF HUMAN NATURE, TRENDING NEWS & THOUGHT-PROVOKING TOPICS OF INTEREST.

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