Ladies: Are You Just Another Easily Accessible Throwaway Sperm Receptacle Of A Naive Women On Some Man’s Private Smartphone Booty Call Menu?

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You might have to sit down for this blog because I am going to dip into the vast mental archives and pull from memory all of the
experiences that I’ve had talking to and being around the many fellows who I’ve crossed paths with on various levels before in the past.

Allow me to let you overhear a somewhat common mindset that I often observe and overhear in various degrees while I drive my bus.  For the purpose of proving a point I will concentrate it a little more to open your eyes to something that you may not be aware of.

Here we have a single (And sometimes married!) man doesn’t have a “date” for this weekend night so he goes into his phone to find a lady to spend the evening with. He has various phone numbers accumulated over time from his many conundrums along the way in his attempts to have as many female contacts as possible to insure that his love life options will remain many.

On this evening our subject is extremely aroused with amorous intentions. His I-Phone is his personal surefire method to satisfying
his freakish carnal desires. He has collected literally hundreds of contacts in his phone and has been highly successful in the past of
usually finding a quick fix sex partner after calling several women and administering his “cookie cutter one size fits all” sweet talk
that works like a charm with a lonely attention starved lady who falls hard for the “out of the blue” verbal affections that are rained down on her in a never ending rapid fire style.

He begins his hunt around ten o’clock this evening which in his opinion is the perfect time to initiate his spiel because by this time a woman has made up her mind what she will do with her evening.

If she is going out with friends she is already getting ready to do so and she will tell him so, but if she has nothing planned then he has a  great chance of being invited over to her place without having to ask  because she would be too relaxed to get up and get herself ready up to the level of her high standards.

Timing is everything in his predatory mind and nine times out of ten he will be in this woman’s bedroom less than an hour if the cards are played right.

Cost effective? Sure! Because if this woman has made up her mind to stay in that evening then nothing is going to change her mind. Our “Predator Player” knows that the worst case scenario of what he will have to cough up in the money department is to maybe bring something from the outside for her at her request and what would that be at that time of night? Wine? Chinese food? Depending on her taste and “positioning” on his I-Phone hit list more or less it will pan out to next to nothing!

Can you see how these men operate?

Let’s go further…….

Now let’s say that things don’t go as planned with our fair weathered friend, let’s say that his first choice for “companionship” had plans already in motion and there was absolutely no chance to see her that evening.

Well, do you think this man cherishes his precious “friendship” with this woman to the point where he will just stay home because he can’t see her? No! He will swiftly move on to “Plan B!”

Now I warned you that you would have to read this blog sitting down because for many of you it would be a rude awakening to see how cold and cunning a man can be behind the facade of the gentleman that you have begun to love and trust so much.

But “Plan B?”

Yes! The fact of the matter is that a man like this will seek out the “company” of another woman just a fast with the same mentality that he would have if he were looking for a toilet to urinate in! Your company means nothing to him anymore special than any other biological function – because that’s all you will ever be to him, a means to executing a very pleasurable biological function!

While you might think to yourself that “No! My “friend” would never think of me that way even though we have a physical relationship more so than a romantic one, we understand each other as well as being pretty cool with each other and if he got to the point of wanting to settle down with someone I KNOW that he has no other choice but to want to be with me!”

No other choice?

HA!

Nine times out of ten please do not hoodwink yourself into thinking that there are not dozens of women who passively place themselves in his path no matter what he looks like! If he holds down a job, can string a few sentences together without to many grammatical errors and can line up two teeth in his head to split a grape then he my dear is most definitely a TARGET! Either he is the type of man to refuse this attention or he is the type to welcome it wholeheartedly!

And the very reason that you have gotten THIS far into this blog is because you KNOW and can sense the sincerity in my words because most men do not tell I like it is anymore.

Plus to be honest and shoot straight with you there were periods in my life and in my development where I too utilized the tricks of the trade to my advantage but when I became a Father soon after getting married to my first wife and witnessed childbirth firsthand for the first time in my life, watching my beautiful daughter Rasheda arrive into this world straight from the womb, my entire mentality metamorphosed into something completely different as to not allow the sharks of the world get too her like I know they have gotten to others!

So I automatically went into “protection mode” and for me to write this particular blog is just an extention of those feelings. So if you
didn’t catch what I said the first time is that I have “been there done that” and know that if you want to protect your home against a
burgler and install the best home protection system wouldn’t it make sense to find out FROM a former burgler what systems that he feels are the most difficult to break through?

Nothing beats hands on experience and I am giving it to you right here for FREE!

But back to the original point on your man or friend being a target you must understand that times are desperate on the dating scene and every prospect seems to be picked over comparable to store merchandise the day after Christmas! And like that store merchandise, something seems to be flawed with every piece! Everyone out here is not perfect so find yourself with someone who is honest and will PROVE IT beyond the shadow of a doubt before you move forward in any “arrangement” as to save yourself a ton of heartache, lose and frustration!

Know that there are many “Plan B’s” out there and never should you as a woman believe wholeheartedly what you overhear other women say collectively in the presence of more women in the beauty parlors and church dinners across the board when they speak about how they would never bow down to do such things or tolerate being a side piece in a philanderer’s harem!

These are the very same women who will do just that! So don’t take a person on what they say because you NEVER know behind closed doors what they will DO! They have private parts that love to be licked and sucked on and in the middle of the night when they wake up moistened after a nice wet dream, all thoughts of the righteous morality that they have preached publicly about are thrown right out of the window! This is not a put down, it’s only a reality check and what it really indicates is that we all need to be not only more honest with each other but more honest with OURSELVES because we tell ourselves more lies than anyone EVER will!

When men of this caliber seek out the company of their “Plan B” you must know that the most decadent of men have their own system of “rating” their harem members. There are attributes that some men like more than others and I must say ladies that it is not always physical.

Let’s talk about the obvious, the physical aspects, I am quite sure that you have heard many ask the question if a man is a tit man or an ass man. Most Brothers always go for the ass, a nice shapely thick pair of legs topped off by a well rounded and sculpted ass that has a small waist is a drug to most Black men that will get you well know in town in record time faster than you can imagine! The predators will have you in their cross-threads without you even knowing it! Men will trail you home as you walk home from the supermarket without you knowing it just to know where you live! Am I telling the truth? A lot of you know that I am!

But the fact of the matter is that men like it all and most will lay down with anything, I hate to break your bubble but much too often he will compliment you and overwhelm you with attention until he is sure that you are convinced of his sincerity so he can install you as a back up plan in his smart phone for his late night predatory sperm shooting sprees! Take it or leave it alone!

More so than the physical attributes are the intangibles that come along with your particular living situation. Do you have your own
place? This fact alone moves you up higher on the scale of desirability even if you may not be built like big booty Brenda down
the block who has eight different kids all under ten years old from eight different drug dealers who all happened to be locked up in
prison and lives in her “mamas” apartment in one room but who is known to give the best “oral treatment” and could make any Brother exhibit movements resembling a person with Cerebral Palsy for three days after her lips have blessed him with that extreme pleasure!

But you know what? Going over to “get some” from Big Booty Brenda just ain’t worth it! Why? Because first you have to get past the mother who is going to make you promise to come on down to the church service next Wednesday night and then you must bring a little something for each of her kids and then “wait” all night until the last kid falls asleep before you can “sneak it” and even then you will be interrupted by the kids who have a radar to “know” that something mysterious is going on with that man and mommy! Lol! So to avoid that not only do you have to hit off her mother with some cash to look after those rude kids but you also have to give the momma the impression that her daughter is special and that there may be a future between the both of you while all you really want to do is get her in that short stay hotel room you have as quickly as you can before dropping her home with a bag of McDonald’s containing some cold hard fries! Lol!

Translation: It ain’t worth it!

So for you ladies who have your own know that the predators can sniff this a million miles away and that this makes you more of a target even if you do not feel as though you are a beauty queen!

The trick with most cheating men is that they want the most return with the least investment. So demand that they bring something to add to the pot if you are in the dating game and need to protect your assets too. You have it going on and let him know that you don’t come cheap. As a matter of fact there are LESS of you out hear and an abundance of Big Booty Brenda’s so you must drawn the line and hold true to your standards because so many women do not even HAVE a set of standards and these men know it and are having a FIELD DAY out here!

Need further proof? Let me tell you, as a bus driver, several times a month someone will leave their phone on the bus. It might slip out of their pocket or they might just be distracted when they are exiting the bus in an attempt to make their connection to another bus. Different reasons, same result. There phone is left behind, now many people who are on the bus will just take the phone and put it in their pocket and be on their way. Phones are expensive these days and most people are not that honest especially in this economy, but every now and again an honest passenger will turn that abandoned phone in to me and I will turn it in to my bus companies lost and found in the hopes that its owner will come to reclaim it.

But in the meantime in my noble spirit of trying to right all wrongs and come to the aid of one in distress I try as the great person that I am to see if it is someone that I know by looking in the phone if it is not locked and needing a pass code to get into it.

Wow!

Let me tell you, for some reason I just happen to always “find” (Lol!) the photo area and nine times out of ten, their are the most graphic photos of my beloved regular passengers doing things that I never thought were humanly possible! And I must say that it’s NOT just the men who are getting busy with multiple partners! I found an old church ladies phone and saw her with two guys that could be her grandson’s age! I once saw a Casanova pretty boy type that always had a gorgeous woman by his side laying up I. The bed spreadeagled and taking it from behind from this other dude who I saw before ride the bus! And I saw another passenger who has got to be near seventy years old being “serviced” by various young girls at different times and I would have to say that I wished the dear Lord had “blessed” me in the manner that he did the old man on the phone because I know he is hitting ’em out of the park with that old bat of his! Lol!

But the advances in technology have made it easier for a fast man to operate faster and even more covertly under the radar, yes, this goes for everyone but as we well know, men will always take it to the extremes!

Always take your time when dealing with someone and demand a transparency in everything that they do just as you will do the same. Life is too short and there are too many deadly diseases out her to be playing around and risking your life for a moment of fleeting pleasure that really is very overrated to say the least.

If he is sincere in being monogamous with you then he will have NO problem giving you the passcodes to his phone! YES! I said it! If he is moving with a faithful heart then he will have no problem doing this as he knows that it will set him apart from all of the other men in the world because most will not do this! But maybe he might have a few favorite pictures floating around on his phone that he may have forgotten about, give him a break and let him know that you will be asking him about opening up his private cyber world with you at a later date down in the week. This will give him the time to insure that all is clear as you both turn over a new leave in your lives.

Everybody deserves a chance to start out clean in a relationship these days because almost everyone that you might run across who may peek your interest most definitely has a past of some sort so while you will rule with an iron hand also judge with a loving heart but NEVER break your own rules or drop your standards because those sharks and predators will always lurk amidst the waters of the social scene watching for their next conquest and victim. Don’t let that be you!

Let me first start out by saying that not all men think this way but many or rather may I say more than fifty percent to some degree THINK in this manner covertly even though they may not ACT in this manner. Looks are deceiving in this world when dealing with the sexes so with that being said it beings me RIGHT BACK to the Bible when it strongly stated to TEST THE SPIRIT!

Not all men are bad but everyone who acts like a saint is not necessarily a saint. The lies, deceit and games played on a woman’s heart have spawned some of the greatest love songs that the ear has ever heard!

It has also caused sane loving women to become cold hearted murderers in the twinkling of an eye upon hearing of her mates cheating ways!

It has caused the most  loyal long suffering and dedicated wives to turn away from ever thinking of being in a long term relationship with a man and will only allow themselves to have a “friend” in order to accommodate the need for an occasional “physical only” release.

I’ve notice many of my Sisters of all races will sometimes take it lightly when dealing with a new prospect not knowing how powerful an effect that intimacy, sexuality and love can have not only on your life, but on your physical and mental health as well. And while there are many wonderful men out here in the world who dot the terrain who are extremely worthy of your love, know that it only takes one poor choice in judgment for you to end up in the crazy house, the clinic or spiritually bankrupt after taking the chance to deal with the wrong man who says all of the ‘right” things! Life is too sweet to waste it on drama, make your life a thing that brings you pleasure to wake up to every morning instead of the dread that comes when you realize that you have a dead weight “predator player” sucking the very life out of you!

I will be speaking on this in further blogs but until then be careful out there…….

Peace.

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