Ladies: You Must ALWAYS Have Your Own & NEVER Depend On A Man!

Artist/Blogger Lance Scurvin speaks truth on a number of issues including why a women is to not to ever depend on a man for the things that she can do for herself!

When you read the title of this video-blog you just had to say to yourself that the statement is as old as dirt but what you have to ask yourself is why do our women fall for the old trick of depending on a man completely therefore relinquishing her control to him and eventually finding out the hard way?

Scurv talks about this and other ramblings that have crossed his mind for the day. Please leave your comments in the comments area below and do enjoy this latest verbal wisdom packed offering of delicious food for thought from his kitchen of experience!

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Media Personality | Culture Critic | Podcast Host | Blogger & Cartoonist who focuses on the issues of raw Human Nature the Mainstream Media is deathly afraid to touch!  THE LANCESCURV SHOW PODCAST focuses is on current events, trending happenings, news and thought provoking topics of interest in an uncompromising uncensored manner.

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May 17, 2011 8:11 AM

NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER!!!! i totally agree… have ur own!!!! definately have ur own.. and i think u hit it right no when you said about knowing a persons spirit… take the time to get to know a persons spirit.. I always tell my kids… ya know.. a person can be the most beautiful to look at.. but their personality attitude and spirit makes them not so beautiful.. yet.. yet.. you can have the plainest of people that some would not give the time of day to.. and they can have the most amazing spirit and heart that u cud ever imagine… LET GOD CHOOSE WHO HE BRINGS INTO YOUR LIFE .. FOR YOUR LIFE…. i have made the very mistakes that you talk about lance.. the very mistakes… but i learned by them… Im not perfect.. far from it.. but i know i have a good soul.. and my life partner that God has for me.. when it is my time.. he will be so special.. i would never have experienced love like it before.. not just love tho…respect.. companionship.. growth.. understanding…. passion.. CONNECTION!!!! all the beautiful things and more.. that a relationship should be….

But even then.. i will work to have my own.. because i deserve it!!!!

May 17, 2011 7:41 AM

LOL… agreed.. BUT.. never depend on ANYONE for anything… other than yourself.. i feel sometimes its the best way… if u cannot rely and depend upon ones self.. then who can you rely on really?? but certainly ladies… go out.. be yourself and do for YOU!!! dont rely on a man for anything u want.. be independant .. even in a relationship y9ou can both be independant!! you truly can.. and still have the companionship and respect and love that a couple can have for one another!!!! you can have ur lil bit of freedom.. and all of ur hobbies and love and respect and passion and love.. and.. conversation etc etc… ur cup will be overflowing with respect and freedom and a sense of ones self.. i think.. that wen people depend on one another too much.. it can give u the sense of feeling trapped.. instead of free and just… …. being you

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