Let’s talk about something most men won’t admit to—something that has become an epidemic, even though it has existed for generations. Masturbation has weakened manhood across all cultures, races, age groups, and lifestyles, without exception. This secret indulgence—whether called “jerking off,” “rubbing one out,” “chocking the chicken,” “putting in a round,” or some other euphemism—captures the energy of most young men at a very early age.
It often begins with that first glimpse of a magazine featuring nude women in seductive poses, or perhaps an unexpected moment of voyeurism—catching sight of a neighbor undressing through an open window. However it happens, that first experience of self-pleasure rewires the brain, leaving an imprint that never fades. The rush of pleasure is so intense that it feels like the discovery of a secret treasure—the holy grail of all those mysterious feelings that once seemed unexplainable.
But what if I told you that masturbation is more than just a personal habit? What if I told you it’s part of a massive, unseen industry designed to drain men of their vitality, making them docile and disconnected from their true power? For decades, this system has been perfected, infiltrating homes through increasingly accessible pornography, engineered to hijack male sexuality and transform it into a never-ending cycle of addiction.
I remember when my friends and I were old enough to enter adult book and magazine shops in the late ’70s. Before that, we spent our days hanging out, dreaming about girls, and simply enjoying our youth. But no night felt complete without a detour to Times Square, a seedy, pulsating jungle of vice—where streetwalkers, flamboyant pimps, drug addicts, closeted predators, and fire-and-brimstone preachers who warned of the world ending while they kept their eyes glued to a prostitutes well rounded backside in an obvious act of hypocrisy to reveal his real reason why he was there in the first place, but all of these colorful characters mingled under the neon glow. The air was thick with marijuana, the stench of dried urine, temptation, hypocrisy, and desperation.
Inside the adult video shops, we’d scrape together enough money to buy a VHS tape, anxiously handing it over to the unimpressed store owner, desperate to get out before anyone recognized us. Yet, as we sat in a dimly lit room, watching those grainy scenes in stunned silence, a realization crept in. Lust had taken hold of us, and some of us couldn’t wait to get home—because we knew exactly what we were about to do.
For many, that night marked the beginning of a lifelong addiction.
Even now, in an era where pornography is freely available at the touch of a button, most men will deny their dependency. But the truth is, 99.99% of men have spilled their seed in front of a screen, hiding a precious bottle of lubricant behind a locked door. And what’s the result? An epidemic of erectile dysfunction, deteriorating relationships, and an inability to see women as anything more than objects for their gratification. The real cure isn’t Viagra—it’s quitting the addiction that’s silently stealing their strength. In other words, STOP JERKING OFF!
And this addiction goes deeper than most realize.
Back in 1978, when I was just 15, I made a prediction that time has proven true. Standing inside an adult video shop, I told a friend: “These categories of sexual fantasies will multiply like a booming stock market, creating desires in men that are not only unattainable but dangerous. Men will lose themselves in an endless menu of fetishes, sinking deeper into a rabbit hole of lust while life passes them by. They won’t just struggle to have real relationships—they’ll be unable to see women as anything more than the paid performers they watch on screen.”
That prediction of mine has come to pass.
Today, men are drowning in a flood of pornographic content, each video engineered to push boundaries and warp perceptions of intimacy. They don’t realize they’re being used—trapped in a system that profits from their addiction, draining them of their masculinity, their discipline, and their drive.
So, I ask you—are you still in control? Or has the habit already taken control of you?
Listen up gentlemen! We’re about to have a real conversation today. Not the kind where I sugarcoat things and pat you on the back. No way! We’re cutting straight to the truth.
You ever sit back and wonder why your life isn’t moving the way it should? You’ve got energy, you’ve got ambition, but for some reason, you feel stuck. You’re not out here getting high, you ain’t killing your lungs with smoke, and you ain’t throwing your money away at the club every weekend. But there’s one thing holding you back, and you probably don’t even see it.
It’s that damn screen in front of you. It’s that habit you got when you’re alone and nobody’s watching. You already know what I’m talking about. Masturbation.
Yeah, I said it. And before you roll your eyes and try to dismiss what I’m saying, sit down and listen. This ain’t about judging you; this is about saving you.
The Trap You Don’t See
See, you been lied to. They told you it’s natural, that it doesn’t mean anything, that every man does it. They made you believe it’s harmless. But let me tell you something—every time you do it, every time you give in to that impulse, you’re training yourself to be weak.
That’s right. Weak.
You don’t even realize it, but every time you waste that energy, you’re programming your brain to settle for the easy way out. You’re training yourself to avoid challenges, to choose comfort over growth.
Ever notice how after you do it, you feel a little off? A little less motivated? Like your drive just ain’t there? That’s because you just drained yourself.
And I ain’t just talking about physical energy. I’m talking about your mental energy. Your focus. Your willpower.
The Connection Between Masturbation and Weakness
Let me put it to you like this—look at the men who run the world. The real movers and shakers. The ones who build, create, and dominate. You think they spend their time jerking off to a screen? Hell no.
Because they understand something you don’t—that energy is sacred. That energy is power. And if you waste it on some nonsense, you’ll never reach your full potential.
Schopenhauer said it best—desire is the source of suffering. If you can’t control your desires, your desires control you. And once that happens, you’re finished.
The Dopamine Addiction: Just Like Drugs
You ever wonder why you keep going back to it? Why you feel like you “need” it? That’s because every time you do it, your brain releases dopamine—the same chemical that gets released when people take drugs.
That means you’re getting hooked.
And like any addiction, over time, you need more. You need something harder, wilder, crazier just to get the same feeling. That’s why dudes start with regular videos and end up watching some wild, twisted nonsense years later.
Your brain is rewiring itself. And just like a junkie who needs a stronger hit, you’re digging yourself deeper into a hole.
The Spiritual & Mental Cost
This ain’t just about science, though. This goes deeper.
Every time you do it, you’re chipping away at your own masculinity. You’re training yourself to be passive, to settle, to be a man who reacts to life instead of taking control of it.
You ever wonder why some men have that glow? That presence? That unshakable confidence? It’s because they hold on to their energy.
And the ones who don’t? The ones who can’t go a few days without touching themselves? They look tired, drained, uncertain. Because that’s exactly what they are.
Why Society Wants You Stuck
Now, let me ask you this—who benefits from you being weak?
Think about it.
A weak man is easy to manipulate. He’s easy to control. He’s easy to distract.
If you’re too busy chasing cheap pleasure, you ain’t building nothing. You ain’t improving yourself. You ain’t a threat to the system.
And trust me—they know this. That’s why pornography is free. That’s why it’s everywhere. That’s why they push it like it’s normal. Because they want you hooked.
They don’t want you thinking. They don’t want you focused. They don’t want you powerful.
And if you keep falling into this trap, you’re playing right into their hands.
How to Break Free & Reclaim Your Power
Listen, I ain’t here to just tell you what’s wrong—I’m here to tell you how to fix it.
- Go on a challenge. Try going one week without doing it. See how you feel. You’ll notice your energy going up, your focus getting sharper, your confidence building.
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Get rid of the triggers. If certain websites, social media, or even certain TV shows put you in that mood, cut them out.
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Channel that energy into something productive. Hit the gym. Read. Work on a skill. Do something that builds you up instead of draining you.
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Surround yourself with strong men. Weak energy is contagious, but so is strong energy. If the people around you are focused and disciplined, you’ll be forced to level up.
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Meditate and train your mind. Self-control starts in the mind. The more you strengthen your discipline, the more you take control of your life.
The Choice is Yours
Look, at the end of the day, you gotta make a decision.
You can keep doing the same thing, staying in the same cycle, watching your potential slip away day by day.
Or you can wake up and start taking control of your life.
Because I promise you this—the moment you stop being a slave to your impulses is the moment you start becoming the man you were meant to be.
But if you keep choosing weakness, don’t be surprised when life treats you like you don’t matter. Because in this world, only the strong thrive.
So what’s it going to be?
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From the heart always,
