After watching a very interesting program on ABC entitled “Can Successful Black Women Find Men”, it caused me to think how much of this issue is perception as opposed to reality? Now, the term successful in my mind doesn’t fly with me in the traditional sense of the word because if you are a women “holding it down” on your OWN regardless of your tax bracket, you are successful in my eyes!
My question to the ladies AND the gentlemen is, “Do Black Women come down on the Brothers too hard when they state their expectations or do we as men think that women don’t understand what we have to go through as Black Men with the lower expectations attached to our reputations?
Please shoot from the hip!