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ARE YOU SURROUNDED BY ATTITUDES AND IDIOTS? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 28, 2025
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ARE YOU SURROUNDED BY ATTITUDES AND IDIOTS? | LANCESCURV

Understanding the Nature of Idiots You ever notice how some people just seem to exist to test your patien ...

Understanding the Nature of Idiots You ever notice how some people just seem to exist to test your patience? Whether it’s a coworker with an overinflated ego, a driver who cuts you off only to blame y ...

March 28, 2025
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SEXUAL IMBALANCE: HOW MY EARLY INTRODUCTION TO SEX SHAPED MY EMOTIONAL LIFE | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 27, 2025
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SEXUAL IMBALANCE: HOW MY EARLY INTRODUCTION TO SEX SHAPED MY EMOTIONAL LIFE | LANCESCURV

Let’s be real for a second. This is one of those conversations that folks don’t usually have in the open. ...

Let’s be real for a second. This is one of those conversations that folks don’t usually have in the open. It’s raw, it’s personal, and it’s something that has shaped me in ways I’m still unpacking. Bu ...

March 27, 2025
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USERS, LEECHES, PARASITES AND TAKERS: THE ONES WHO NEVER GIVE BACK | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 26, 2025
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USERS, LEECHES, PARASITES AND TAKERS: THE ONES WHO NEVER GIVE BACK | LANCESCURV

There’s a sickness that runs deep in our community, a toxic mindset that allows some people to take, take ...

There’s a sickness that runs deep in our community, a toxic mindset that allows some people to take, take, and take—without ever thinking to give. It’s not just a matter of balance or fairness. No, th ...

March 26, 2025
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ARE YOU EVEN AWARE OF THE UNSPOKEN STRUGGLES THAT PUSH BLACK MEN AWAY? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 25, 2025
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ARE YOU EVEN AWARE OF THE UNSPOKEN STRUGGLES THAT PUSH BLACK MEN AWAY? | LANCESCURV

The Silent Struggle of Black Men Every day, countless Black men in America carry the weight of expectatio ...

The Silent Struggle of Black Men Every day, countless Black men in America carry the weight of expectations, responsibilities, and pressures that often go unnoticed. They are the backbone of families, ...

March 25, 2025
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CAN A MAN BUILD A PEACEFUL LIFE WITH A WOMAN WHO LOVES CHAOS? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 23, 2025
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CAN A MAN BUILD A PEACEFUL LIFE WITH A WOMAN WHO LOVES CHAOS? | LANCESCURV

Not every woman is worth your time. Some women bring peace, loyalty, and genuine love into your life. Oth ...

Not every woman is worth your time. Some women bring peace, loyalty, and genuine love into your life. Others? They drain you, manipulate you, and slowly turn your life into a disaster. And here’s the ...

March 23, 2025
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THE VANISHING ACT: WHY DO DECEPTIVE WOMEN DISAPPEAR INTO THIN AIR?

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|Date: March 22, 2025
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THE VANISHING ACT: WHY DO DECEPTIVE WOMEN DISAPPEAR INTO THIN AIR?

A Friend’s Story, Told With Permission This is not an attack on women. It’s an exposure of a certain kind ...

A Friend’s Story, Told With Permission This is not an attack on women. It’s an exposure of a certain kind of woman—a predator, a master manipulator, a ghost in the night who enters a man’s life under ...

March 22, 2025
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HAVE YOU FALLEN INTO A NARCISSIST’S TRAP? | LANCESCURV

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|Date: March 18, 2025
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HAVE YOU FALLEN INTO A NARCISSIST’S TRAP? | LANCESCURV

Exposing the Narcissist’s Playbook: How to Break Free from Their Manipulation They Play a Different Game— ...

Exposing the Narcissist’s Playbook: How to Break Free from Their Manipulation They Play a Different Game—And You Need to Understand It If you’re dealing with a narcissist, the first thing you must und ...

March 18, 2025
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FRIENDS OR TRAUMA TWINS?

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|Date: January 19, 2025
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FRIENDS OR TRAUMA TWINS?

Trauma’s Hidden Influence on Our Relationships It’s often said that we attract what we are. But what if w ...

Trauma’s Hidden Influence on Our Relationships It’s often said that we attract what we are. But what if who we are is shaped by trauma? The nervous system—the body’s internal regulation system for saf ...

January 19, 2025
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THE TRAP OF LIVING FOR OTHERS

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|Date: December 29, 2024
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THE TRAP OF LIVING FOR OTHERS

From childhood, many of us are conditioned to believe that putting others first is the hallmark of being ...

From childhood, many of us are conditioned to believe that putting others first is the hallmark of being a good person. Whether it’s through familial expectations, societal norms, or cultural influenc ...

December 29, 2024
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THE FINE ART OF CUTTING PEOPLE OFF: TEACHING THE DISRESPECTFUL TO RESPECT YOUR TIME | LANCESCURV

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|Date: November 23, 2024
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THE FINE ART OF CUTTING PEOPLE OFF: TEACHING THE DISRESPECTFUL TO RESPECT YOUR TIME | LANCESCURV

Not Everyone Deserves Access to You You know, I’ve come to the conclusion that people treat your time the ...

Not Everyone Deserves Access to You You know, I’ve come to the conclusion that people treat your time the way you allow them to treat your presence. If you make yourself too available, they start thin ...

November 23, 2024
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THOSE WHO FEAR THE TRUTH WILL FEAR THE EMPATH: A NARCISSISTS WORST NIGHTMARE | LANCESCURV

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|Date: November 22, 2024
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THOSE WHO FEAR THE TRUTH WILL FEAR THE EMPATH: A NARCISSISTS WORST NIGHTMARE | LANCESCURV

In a world where deception reigns and manipulation has become second nature for some, the empath emerges ...

In a world where deception reigns and manipulation has become second nature for some, the empath emerges as a beacon of light, standing firm in the advocacy for truth. As an empath myself, I’ve come t ...

November 22, 2024
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THE HARSH REALITIES OF BEING THE MUCH YOUNGER “OTHER WOMAN” IN A SECRET RELATIONSHIP | LANCESCURV

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|Date: November 21, 2024
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THE HARSH REALITIES OF BEING THE MUCH YOUNGER “OTHER WOMAN” IN A SECRET RELATIONSHIP | LANCESCURV

Secret relationships involving younger women and older, married men often seem enticing on the surface. T ...

Secret relationships involving younger women and older, married men often seem enticing on the surface. The older man provides financial stability and an air of sophistication, while the younger woman ...

November 21, 2024
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STOP ENABLING DEADBEATS WHO ARE NOT MOTIVATED TO IMPROVE! | BALCONY REFLECTIONS # 9

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|Date: November 17, 2024
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STOP ENABLING DEADBEATS WHO ARE NOT MOTIVATED TO IMPROVE! | BALCONY REFLECTIONS # 9

The African American community faces many challenges, but one of the most overlooked issues is the burden ...

The African American community faces many challenges, but one of the most overlooked issues is the burden placed on motivated individuals by unmotivated "deadbeats." These individuals—whether family, ...

November 17, 2024
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BEWARE THE HELPERS WHO SEEK TO CONTROL YOUR DESTINY | BALCONY REFLECTIONS # 8

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|Date: November 15, 2024
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BEWARE THE HELPERS WHO SEEK TO CONTROL YOUR DESTINY | BALCONY REFLECTIONS # 8

When someone offers you help, especially in a way that seems generous and unsolicited, it’s natural to fe ...

When someone offers you help, especially in a way that seems generous and unsolicited, it’s natural to feel grateful. You might even consider it a stroke of divine intervention—a person crossing your ...

November 15, 2024
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THE DANGERS OF PEOPLE-PLEASING: PROTECTING YOUR LIGHT IN A WORLD THAT WON’T ALWAYS ACCEPT YOU | LANCESCURV

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|Date: November 14, 2024
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THE DANGERS OF PEOPLE-PLEASING: PROTECTING YOUR LIGHT IN A WORLD THAT WON’T ALWAYS ACCEPT YOU | LANCESCURV

In a world where kindness often goes unappreciated, many people find themselves caught in the endless cyc ...

In a world where kindness often goes unappreciated, many people find themselves caught in the endless cycle of trying to please everyone around them. They give and give, hoping that this will bring ac ...

November 14, 2024
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THE WAR ON YOUR WOMB IS AN ATTACK ON OUR FUTURE! | BALCONY REFLECTIONS # 4

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|Date: October 30, 2024
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THE WAR ON YOUR WOMB IS AN ATTACK ON OUR FUTURE! | BALCONY REFLECTIONS # 4

The womb, the sacred cradle of life, has become a battleground. For countless women, especially within th ...

The womb, the sacred cradle of life, has become a battleground. For countless women, especially within the African-American community, the journey toward motherhood is fraught with challenges that beg ...

October 30, 2024
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SATISFY YOURSELF FIRST: RECLAIMING YOUR ENERGY AND PASSION | LANCESCURV

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|Date: October 21, 2024
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SATISFY YOURSELF FIRST: RECLAIMING YOUR ENERGY AND PASSION | LANCESCURV

In this life, you have to make sure that you satisfy yourself because no one else can do that for you. Wh ...

In this life, you have to make sure that you satisfy yourself because no one else can do that for you. What I'm speaking on is the direction of your life and how you focus your energies. Where you pla ...

October 21, 2024
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EXPOSING THE NARCISSIST AND THE TACTICS USED TO DESTROY YOUR LIFE! | LANCESCURV

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|Date: October 16, 2024
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EXPOSING THE NARCISSIST AND THE TACTICS USED TO DESTROY YOUR LIFE! | LANCESCURV

Narcissistic collapse is the inevitable downfall of a narcissist's carefully constructed false self, leav ...

Narcissistic collapse is the inevitable downfall of a narcissist's carefully constructed false self, leaving their real, often empty, identity exposed. The journey to this point is long, manipulative, ...

October 16, 2024
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CARRYING SOMEONE ELSE’S BAGGAGE WILL LEAVE YOU ALL USED UP & TREATED LIKE TRASH! | LANCESCURV

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|Date: June 21, 2023
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CARRYING SOMEONE ELSE’S BAGGAGE WILL LEAVE YOU ALL USED UP & TREATED LIKE TRASH! | LANCESCURV

There are several important reasons why it's crucial not to allow others to use us as enablers until we'r ...

There are several important reasons why it's crucial not to allow others to use us as enablers until we're exhausted. Here are some key points to consider: Preservation of personal well-being: Priorit ...

June 21, 2023
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DEFLECTING GASLIGHTING ENERGY! | OMBIENCE

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|Date: December 06, 2022
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DEFLECTING GASLIGHTING ENERGY! | OMBIENCE

CARTOONIST | BLOGGER | MEDIA & CULTURE CRITIC | PODCAST HOST & DIGITAL NOMAD WHO FOCUSES ON THE ISSUES TH ...

CARTOONIST | BLOGGER | MEDIA & CULTURE CRITIC | PODCAST HOST & DIGITAL NOMAD WHO FOCUSES ON THE ISSUES THAT THE MAINSTREAM MEDIA IS DEATHLY AFRAID TO TOUCH! THE LANCESCURV PODCAST COVERS CURRENT EVENT ...

December 06, 2022
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8 REASONS WHY YOU CAN’T TURN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP INTO A HEALTHY ONE!

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|Date: August 30, 2021
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8 REASONS WHY YOU CAN’T TURN A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP INTO A HEALTHY ONE!

Here on this platform we will always discuss those topics that might be difficult for others to grasp in ...

Here on this platform we will always discuss those topics that might be difficult for others to grasp in the hopes that we can prevent bad situations from happening to good people. Many of us do not u ...

August 30, 2021
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STOP BEING A DUMPING GROUND FOR THE TOXIC PEOPLE AROUND YOU! – The LanceScurv Show

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|Date: August 23, 2018
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STOP BEING A DUMPING GROUND FOR THE TOXIC PEOPLE AROUND YOU! – The LanceScurv Show

Working with the public can truly be an experience in itself when we are calibrated properly from within ...

Working with the public can truly be an experience in itself when we are calibrated properly from within to be able to absorb our encounters with the general public as a life lesson in human nature. I ...

August 23, 2018
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The Answers That We Seek Always Reside Within Us!

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|Date: May 14, 2014
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The Answers That We Seek Always Reside Within Us!

The answer always resides within ourselves whether we have to maturity or insight to understand this or n ...

The answer always resides within ourselves whether we have to maturity or insight to understand this or not. We will literally waste decades of our lives searching outwardly for the peace of mind that ...

May 14, 2014
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Kiss His Ass Goodbye As Fast As You Can & Forge Forward Into Your True Destiny!

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|Date: November 15, 2011
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Kiss His Ass Goodbye As Fast As You Can & Forge Forward Into Your True Destiny!

There is a whole lot more to being with someone than meets the eye and the connections are still very str ...

There is a whole lot more to being with someone than meets the eye and the connections are still very strong and can last up to many years if you don't look it square in the eye and purposely disengag ...

November 15, 2011
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