Tonight we’re going to talk about a specific slice of a topic that has been raging on ever since it has been implemented as law in the United States of America.
Now let me make it clear from now that this show is not to even TRY to defend deadbeat dads out there who work hard to NOT work and who’ll do everything within their reach to NOT provide for their children while they run off to romance, use and live off of another unsuspecting victim of a woman who is merely a small part of a long list of people to whom these types see as an opportunity.
No. This is not what the discussion will be about tonight.
What we ARE speaking on is that evil ex-wife, former live in girlfriend or common-law wife who is hellbent on using and manipulating the Child Support laws in order to literally milk a man who has always provided for his children well but is determined to keep him financially handicapped so that he won’t be able to support himself and keep him from being empowered to move on with another love interest.
It’s the ultimate form of control.
She works every angle in the court system to get MORE MONEY and to get every upward financial adjustment that she can to keep that noose TIGHT around his neck and around his bank account.
She takes the utmost joy in knowing that he can’t live the way that he used to and that any relationship that he gets involved in will be strained no matter how understanding “that fool of a woman” may be.
Money is not the only knockout blow for this controlling scorned woman because she also knows that her suffering ex wants badly to spend time with his kids but is unable on most occasions from doing so due to the doubling up of his work schedule that enables him to pay his basic bills.
This woman claims that she doesn’t really want him anymore but the time that she is preoccupied with bringing pain to his life states otherwise. Her side of the story will always be diametrically opposed to what he states as fact but the truth of the matter is that he was the one who initiated the divorce/breakup and her ego seems to be unable to digest this fact so she continues on with a war that should have been over a long time ago and her primary tool is the legal system!
So many men are in similar situations where the court system and short tempered judges seem determined to aid a manipulating spouse in her crusade to keep a good man under.
Why is it that in Child Support court that the people who are total strangers seem to go through the process of deciding what the particulars are seem to be angry or upset with the man even though they are total strangers?
Why is it that any progress that he seems to make even though he is severely handicapped financially is viewed suspiciously as though living below ones means and being very disciplined with ones money is an unattainable way of living.
But the real question is WHY is it that the good guys who love their children and want to spend quality time with them have to take the short end of the stick when in fact there are bad men out in the world who don’t care about doing the right thing and seem to get off of the hook easier without a care in the world?
Child Support enforcement is a necessary component of society because of those who refuse to do what is fair but why is it that we get the feeling that through Child Support the odds are stacked against us in a system that backs the woman unconditionally until we as men are incarcerated or locked up in a mental institution.
For many good men it is a time in their life when they realize that life is not fair and that Child Support for that evil ex-spouse IS the ultimate tool for her sinister intentions on our lives.
Let’s hear from the men tonight, their are a multitude of painful horror stories in our midst more than you could ever imagine. Ladies, if you were ever called an evil spouse by your ex then we want to hear your side of things too.
I tell you, I’m going to have to referee and moderate this show HARD while it’s going on.
Pray for me.
Time: Friday February 1, 2013 @ 10 p.m. Eastern Standard Time
Place: The LanceScurv Show <—–Click here at showtime to hear the entire program live on your computer or smartphone!
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