Relationships these days are more complicated than ever before.
What is written in stone as law for one couple may be a negotiable standard for the next.
Behavioral relationship expectations vary from one individual to another.
What is acceptable to one couple is a major violation to another!
Let’s take the seemingly innocent act of flirting while in a relationship. So called innocent flirting for many of us is how we got involved with the person that we are presently with, there are exceptions to the rule but for the most part, we who are involved and have a significant other can remember the playful times when we have gone through the motions of the human mating ritual called flirting.
While it seems to be something for many that is a harmless endeavor, it can possibly spell disaster when already engaged in a relationship as the temptation to take things to the next level become too strong.
With our modern society having access to many high tech discreet forms of communication (Text messaging & Photo sharing, Facebook messaging etc.), the advanced level of seduction that usually comes right after a few seemingly innocent flirting encounters has been taken up to a whole new dangerous level usually with disastrous results!
How can most who have no control simply flirt without wondering how good the forbidden fruit tastes?
Can we resist the temptation to take things to the next level after tensions have mounted to unbearable levels?
Can an alcoholic just take one sip of booze and be satisfied?
Can the cocaine addict limit himself to just one sniff when a mountain of his vice sits in front of him?
With infidelity levels rapidly increasing to record numbers, is flirting with others other than your mate a cancer that plays a role in the initial breakdown or slow burn of a relationship?
If this is the case can we safely ask “is flirting while in a relationship acceptable” if the results are usually disastrous?
Is flirting a precursor to cheating?
What do YOU think?
Time: Friday, March 9, 2012 @ 10 p.m. Eastern Standard Time
Place: The LanceScurv Talk Show<——-Click here to be redirected to the show page at the time of the program.
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Here is the intro spoken by Lance at the beginning of the program:
Mia I think I’ll plead the fifth tonight sweetheart ’cause it looks like there’s gonna be a whole lot of drama out here tonight when we get down to it for real! Welcome everyone this is The LanceScurv Show and I’m your host, Lance Scurvin, it’s Friday March 9th, 2012 and we have a quite a show for you tonight that’s entitled: “Is Flirting While In A Relationship Acceptable?”
As you have heard by the comments shared by some of our wonderful listeners, it’s a heated topic and I have to say that I’m excited about this one and it is a concept that some seem to take lightly and others do not play with.
Flirting. What really is it about this thing called flirting that can cause such a vast array of responses from the casual to the heated? I have to say that flirting most definitely is a very dangerous game to play when you are in a committed relationship because all it takes is just one time for all factors involved to line up just right for something to happen that one just might regret later on.
We as human beings must deal with our basic impulses every single day of our lives and have self control about what we allow ourselves to do.
These days, with the advent of social media like Facebook, Twitter and BlackPlanet to name a few, the barriers that once existed before that made it a little more difficult to act on those impulses but have been banished and we have been left to deal with our lusts and desires head on and in most cases out of control.
This is not to say that prior to the technological advances that have brought a computer into the majority of our homes that these issues never existed. NO! They sure did but in a much more dragged out manner than today because the so called art of flirting didn’t usually result in a couple going through the heated act of orgasm producing procreation after a few moments of mutually engaged seductive sparks.
Flirting today is much more dangerous than ever before because even if you HAVE some sort of control to not let it get out of hand, then what about the other person? Maybe THEY might be that stalker who makes you regret forevermore of the act that YOU took so lightly and THEY didn’t!
Not only that, but what about your significant other at home? Is this something that YOU would do in their presence and if you DID have some sort of arrangement on that level then how much is TOO much? How would your mate like to find out that you have been titillating others with the distant promise of a possible liaison down the road because we as human beings never forget a situation of potential and possible pleasure!
But then again, how would YOU feel if you discovered that the one that you held in such high regard and remained loyal to you, was considered a lusty flirtatious entity that maybe might offer that chance to enjoy the sensuous jackpot if played with enough like the lottery.
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