Our Secret Fetishes: Are We Afraid To Share What Makes Us Tick?
How many of us know that we have an advanced turn on that the world may night understand completely that we also might be too ashamed to share with our partner/mate or spouse?
Sexuality is more mental than many of us care to admit to and the first stirrings of arousal almost always start in the mind!
What specific things stoke YOUR fires of passion?
First let us agree to what this thing called a fetish is by referring to the World English Dictionary:
1. something, esp an inanimate object, that is believed in certain cultures to be the embodiment or habitation of a spirit or magical powers
2. a. a form of behaviour involving fetishism
b. any object that is involved in fetishism
3. any object, activity, etc, to which one is excessively or irrationally devoted: to make a fetish of cleanliness
Breaking that down for the purpose of this article – a sexual fetish is something that has its roots in something that is not necessarily sexual but still brings on the arousal of sexual excitement to the one who gets turned on by it.
Whether you admit it or not, there IS something about your psycho-sexual dynamic that is unique all unto you because we are made to be different as are all human beings in everything that we do, sexuality falls under the same forces as all other categories.
While it all comes down to the same thing eventually, we all take a different road to the same place. I have found that the more intellectual an individual, the more intense and user specific their sexuality will be when it comes to jump starting their libido because of the various mental options that their mind affords them.
Maybe you may not have understood that previous statement but it comes down to this ——- when you have a higher mind and capacity for a deeper understanding of the world because of your education that you have been programmed with as well as the basic intelligence that you have been born with then you have a higher propensity to possess the capacity for the more advanced sexual turn-ons and thoughts that others who may be of a lower education and intellect level may not possess because of their limited mentality.
Bottom line: The smarter you are the more chance you have of being a born certified freak! I have definitely found this to be the absolute truth!
Intelligence enhances and unlocks our sexuality because once we can grasp a knowledge of self better because of our inner explorations, we can then feel free to “go there” in the bedroom. (Or the back seat of you car at the local shopping mall parking lot until security drives up with that bright floodlight to unfortunately break up the orgasmic festivities!)
So basically if you are an idiot who shuns all things of a higher thought process, then you will just not enjoy the range of fulfilling sexuality that a Harvard graduate would!
But understand that while you may not have a degree from one of the highest schools in the land you can still have those unique turn ons amplified from within with a little self exploration!
Some people have foot fetishes, they will find themselves turned on extremely while observing the various pumps, stilettos and footwear of their preferred sex.
Some may be turned on by a woman in lingerie, a very popular and common fetish indeed, usually stoked from the first views of a woman in various stages of undress from an unexpected encounter during childhood or the curiousity that came from viewing the undergarment section of a woman’s clothing catalog. I knew of one woman who actually could not make love unless her mate (I knew this woman but I was NOT her lover! Let’s get THAT straight! LOL!) drove down to the gas station and rubbed gasoline all over his hands, neck and chest area. This turned her on so much because when she was a high school student she had several sexual encounters with an older man who was a mechanic and would rendezvous with her after work smelling like gasoline. The experience was good to her and her satisfaction is heightened when she can inhale the scent of petro the same way others enjoy the scent of those fine designer fragrances that are purchased at the shopping mall.
So whether you love to be spoken to in a filthy manner and slapped on the ass while being bent over and made love to doggy style or whether making love in a public place with the increase chance of getting caught is your thing then know that whether you admit it or not, you TOO have a sexual fetish that possibly needs to be explored in order to heighten the satisfaction thresholds of YOUR personal erotic experience!
Fetishes are for the most part harmless and are only considered not normal when they involve the violation and exploitation of another against their will or something including minors. That ain’t too cool so understand that on this particular program we are not going to go there and if anyone calls in with such a thought then know that you will be reported directly to the authorities. We do NOT tolerate such things on the LanceScurv Talk Show!
What this program tonight is all about is the healthy exploration and discussion of those vague turn ons that make us “tick” in the the most explosive of ways!
Once again, the title of this program is – Our Secret Fetishes: Are We Afraid To Share What Makes Us Tick?
Tonight for those of us who are bold enough we will reveal a few of our own turn ons as well as challenging YOU to share what you may have been afraid to explore all along!
Get ready for the anecdotes shared, the wisdom provided and the laughs enjoyed only as it can happen on The LanceScurv Talk Show!
This program is for mature adults ONLY!
Showtime: Friday February 3, 2011 @ 10 o’clock p.m sharp eastern standard time
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